Tuesday, June 28, 2011
People Talk
Something that really gets to me is: When people talk behind your back ....even when they are supposed to be your very good friend. I will admit I have had my moments where I am upset and say things......but I will not trash talk to just trash talk. If you have something to share with someone say it to them not to someone else and not in a nasty way that makes them question weather you honestly like them or not. When people talk about me it really gets to me...I honestly wish it didn't....I always try to remember that people will always talk and the important thing is to be myself and just keep living my life. When someone who is close to you though talks about you....it is much harder to let go....any suggestions of how I can deal with this better?
I unfortunately do not have an answer for you. But know that this happens to everybody at some point or another in their lives. I see that you love music by your profile - one thing that always helps me feel better when things go wrong is to make a playlist of the happiest songs you can think of and sing as loud as you possibly can. I dont know if you play any instruments, but that also helps. Do things for you until it blows over :) Best of luck!
ReplyDeleteYeah or its just getting ride of those people completely
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