Monday, September 12, 2011

No ones choice but YOURS

Life is: funny, confusing, amazing, inspiring, mean, loving and stressful.
Do any of us really know why we are here or if what we are doing is "right"? 
I don't know the answer to that question and I don't think anyone ever will. But why stress about if what your doing is right?? If your happy with what your doing then that means it's right because your happy with it....When I went to church people would always stress over...am I on the right path, is this what I am suppose to do? What about what makes you happy?? Sometimes in life there are things you HAVE to do to get by that don't make you happy....but if your looking for happiness while doing them you'll be okay I'm sure of it. I think if you just live your life and are a good and honest, loyal person well ...then I'm sure fate will bring you where you are suppose to be. 
So it's not really about doing the right thing for anyone else...it's about you and what makes you happy....what makes you feel you are fulfilled in life....It's not about asking anyone else if it's right.... its about trial and error until you really know in your heart you are happy with your life. Same goes for finding the right friends....the right person to spend your life with...There is no one that is just going to send lighting bolts from the sky to point you in the right direction...yea there may possibly be someone who is beyond us in some way ..we can talk to and ect. 
In the end no one can tell us the right direction ...it's up to us to find it and know where we are happy....no one else can tell us. If your not happy or wont ever be happy with it...it's probably not right..... 

1 comment:

  1. Wow this is very nicely said and I couldn't agree with you more! I've always felt this way I just never took the time to write it out. And I just want to add that if people are true friends and family, then theyll stand behind you no matter what you want to do in life as long as it make you happy. Theyll be happy that youre happy :)

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